Written By: Andrew Eide
We went to visit my Mother at the Lone Tree Convalescent Hospital in Antioch, California, on Saturday, February 25, 2012. Mother's birthday was February 24th and she turned 88 years of age.
I wish to tell you about this visit today but first I would like to give you a little history of how Mother came to be in the Convalescent facility.
Mother returned to the San Francisco Bay Area in 2003 or 2004 to live with my Brother and my Sister In-Law. Around 2005 or 2006 it became apparent that Mother was in the early stages of Alzheimer's. Her doctor determined that the best situation for all involved was for Mother to be placed into a Convalescent facility where she could be monitored, and treated, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
I returned to the San Francisco Bay Area in August 2009 and from that time to today Mother has been in the advanced stage of Alzheimer's. We talk to her and we are not sure if anything we say actually registers in her brain or not. So we always talk to her, hold her hands, and kiss her hoping that she can actually understand what is going on but that she is unable to communicate with us.
For instance the usual we get from her is a light laugh or chuckle but rarely words we are able to comprehend. On this visit on February 25th both myself and Rebecca were surprised at the reactions and comments we received from Mother. Here are three of them:
I told Mother that she had three children: Jim...Starr...and me (Andy) and that I am her baby. She responded by saying
You are my baby! We were shocked and pleased at that response. During our visit she said it again.
While we were talking with Mother and I again mentioned the names of her three children she said
Starr...Starr which means she registered my sister's name at that time.
The last was that we noticed Mother's television was unplugged so we asked the Maintenance person to come and plug it in for us. We noticed that Mother kept looking at the television which was at the person's bed next to hers. Mother motioned, twice, with her hand toward her television and she made hand motions which told me she wanted her television to be turned on so she could watch the television. Unfortunately her television appears to be broken so I contacted my brother who said he would check on it on the 28th.

Mother really latched on to Rebecca on this visit. She reached out to ask for Rebecca's hands and they held hands for a long time. Rebecca commented to me that Mother was squeezing her hand so tight and didn't want to let go. That is so sweet.
In closing I want to tell you that my Mother looks great for 88 years of age. Her skin is soft and smooth. She has a light fair complexion with very few lines and wrinkles which, if you realize she is full-blooded Sicilian Italian, is remarkable since most Sicilian Italians are dark-skinned with deep lines. We asked that the Salon person give Mother a manicure and nail polish on Monday, February 27th as Mother enjoys having her nails looking nice.